“What arises will surely pass. Your power lies in becoming intensely conscious of the time between the arising and the passing away, without acting out.”
Yesterday was hard cuz I was getting soft. Still stayed on my path n moved on from urges.
It’s exactly like @tuku said here
@kingxvi you’re doing it right bro, keep going. I find every word on this forum Helping n Inspiring in a way.
Yes! Making NoFap our lifestyle is the key to success. I’m trying to become more social n all, it’s getting less awkward for sure. But there’s a lot to work on beside NoFap for Self-esteem.
That’s a great idea @Adioz . I will think about it. In December alone I am engage in various challenges. After finishing some challenges I will surely make a Challenge in this forum.
Remember: Edging is the real relapse, or the only kind of relapse. No one does p m or o without doing mental or physical edging. It can start only there. So the simple rule is: NO EDGING MEANS NO RELAPSE. So, no gi*l image/video/movie/vines/tv etc, no digital women. Talk in reality if it is required. Real is much different. NO EDGE NO RELAPSE = STREAK FOREVER!
What is Edging ? Watching ■■■■ … without fap & orgasm.
NOTE : Here ■■■■ is the stuff which you uses to fap.
Fapping but not ejaculating. Watching + Fapping … without orgasm.
The word Edging means Taking an activity to its very limits. That means… A person who edges… is very close to ejaculate but he dont. This is far more dangerous than simply ejaculate. You bombard your brain with dopamines… for longer hours which fucks with your Reboot.
Never Edge.
What is NoFap ?
1▪No ■■■■
2▪No Fap
3▪No Orgasm.
Different Modes which revolves around 1, 2 & 3 points. Easy Mode = Fapping & Orgasm … without ■■■■. Normal Mode = Orgasm … without ■■■■ & Fapping. Hard Mode = No ■■■■… No Fapping… No Orgasm.
Now, i have explained… Nofap & Edging.
Here, Edging breaks the first & second rule of Nofap
Therefore, Edging = Relapse.
We recommend people to continue there streaks even after edging Because For semen retention benefits only
Thanks adioz.
Nothing against you.
Just putting my thoughts here.
We can have a healthy conversation.
Purpose of forum is complete when we engage in meaningful conversations.
@adioz I mean that at good streaks (even 20+), without edging, there cannot be a relapse. One cannot go to third floor without going to second floor (using stairs). So, in that sense it is the only relapse. As far as I know, one who has edged is sure to lose semen in near future somehow. And brain fog will make him depressed.
We need to try to speak with Him all day. Telling him about our activities, whatever we do. Sometimes we think He is far away from us, but He is next to us, willing to protect us.
Something that could help is to read about the brain. If you feel an urge, you know what part of the brain is causing you to feel that. You speak with the Hypothalamus, hey dude. stop.
The pain we feel when not looking is HEALING pain, like the pain from surgery. The pain is healing us. On the other hand, the spiritual pain of looking is the pain of the disease getting worse. Which pain do we choose? The pain we feel when not looking is not really our pain at all. It is the pain of the lust in his “death throes”. He is screaming that we are hitting him hard. So we can actually enjoy the pain! We are feeling the pain of our enemy as he gets weaker!
“Today, the fight is much easier for me. When I have urges, I admit powerlessness, acknowledge that God is the only One who can - and will - help me, and I ask God to remove the lust from me. I am frankly surprised by how much better this works than fighting the urges head on”.
@Sahas
If you give in to your urges, this will not just affect you but to all those who have added you as their companion!
Never try to become the reason of demotivation for your companions by relapsing, If someone has added you, they wants to see you grow, so why break their trust on you!
I believe in you brother! You are much more stronger than those shitty urges, fight like a warrior!
Self-esteem.
Watching ■■■■ … without fap & orgasm.
