Hi, I know the consequences of masturbation and having and orgasm. But someone could clarify me the consequences of watching porn without fap or edging? I know that only watching porn and releasing preseminal liquid is bad, but sometimes I forget it and I fall into this trap. Please can someone remember me strong arguments that make me afraid of only watching porn?
- you will see women with different eyes (porn-ified image of women). You will stop seeing the person behind the body. You can only see the physical appearance
- You can’t appreciate a nice conversation with a girl anymore because you’re thinking constantly about banging her
- You’re wasting absurd amounts of time which you could use for improving your life
- You’re getting numb to the beauty of nature
- The high dopamine rushes porn gives you make you immune to the amazing activities in real life
- If you have a girlfriend or wife you will have to live in shame because you know that you betray her all the time
- You’re supporting the abuse of girls for porn. No woman who works for porn or prostitution comes out unscathed
- PIED, PE
- You know that only watching porn is not possible. It will lead to masturbation.
But the meanest thing of all is:
- There is no rock bottom. Every time you think that you can’t fall deeper, you think your life can’t get any worse. Remember that. Watch porn and your life does become worse. It’s and infinitely deep pit were you will fall into. You won’t see the blue sky anymore and you will stop questioning porn since it is all your life shows you. It is what your life became. Once down in the hole, even if only one step, it gets extremely difficult to step out again!
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Thank you very much naveragaintw, maybe I already knew them, but I like especially this reason: “If you have a girlfriend or wife you will have to live in shame because you know that you betray her all the time”. Now, I don’t have girlfriend or wife, but you reminded me that love is the best cure to get out of this shit. What is more, I achieved my best streak of 3 and half months when I fell in love. Now I have a friend that I like a lot, and whenever we finish togheter or not, I can not imagine that being married or in a relationship I was betraying her all the time while watching other unknown girls. Maybe some people don’t be motivated by this, but it works for me. Again, thanks for your help 
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With other addictions, you have a lot of accountability. People, friends and family know you’re addicted and they help you overcome it.
PMO is the only addiction which is secret. Only you know that you watch porn. You say to yourself, “nah, I’m not addicted! I can quit whenever I want” -except you can’t. And you get to know that very soon. It will alter your brain inch by inch, with such stealth, you won’t even know before you’re watching crazy tentacle porn and gangrape scenes. Over time, you won’t even get turned on by a regular girl.
On top of that, it is promoted in the mainstream. “masturbation is a healthy release” -you’ll hear that phrase frequently. Why else do you think pornhub registers record number of traffic everyday?
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Being a Zombie is worse than Death.
Similarly, Edging is worse than Orgasm.
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Please visit yourbrainonporn website you will find 10+ years of research,solutions forums everything! Porn is more dangerous than masturbation. If masturbation is an act which will be fueled by porn.
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Yes thanks, good assumption. But I will change it like this: Zombie is worse than Death.
Similarly, Porn is worse than Orgasm, that was what I was really talking about.
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Thanks! I will visit.
You are completely right. Thats is the reason why I love this app and I think he is saving me. I have been masturbating for 12 years but now I think I can beat it. My actual streak is the best on last two years, and this is because I don’t have to feel ashamed anymore. Now I feel accompained and advised by thousands of people who go through the same addiction and thai is great help. We are not alone! Thanks. My code is: 1b5335