Complete guide to quit 𝗉𝗈𝗋𝗇 for good and improve your life

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Thank you @Sholt_Tenkerrot for bringing this topic to attention.

And Thank you @alexcoz600 for your time and effort for making this topic.

Even though I was able to reach 1000 days of no Porn streak, I would give my success to my mom. I used to be a DBZ fan since childhood and I remember one quotes ( I am a quotes fan )

" Power comes in the response of the need and not in desire . Find the need in you "

I am not bragging but I will proudly say that I used to be a topper in my class before the PMO addiction . Then PMO entered my life out of nowhere ( Its a long story) and when the situation got worse I told this to my parents. My father was bit embarrassed but not surprised that much. But it altered the entire viewpoint of my mom. My mom started to consider me as a failure ( Also I was failing in exams due to PMO addiction ) calling me an animal who lacked self control. Those words started to destroy me from inside. Slowly but steadily with the blessings of God I started to gather courage to prove my mom that I am not a failure.

My mom used to say that I cannot do anything and calls me useless .This reduced my interest in academics because I was been constantly been compared by a random guy or girl in my class.So my main aim was to prove my mom wrong. So whenever I have strong urges I would do MO and move on so that the urges will decrease but will never watch P no matter what.

I followed this method for like 1000 days and yes I got that No P streak. I had 2 accounts here , the main one is to track the MO streak and the secondary one to track P streak.

Since childhood , I am not used to rejection and negative emotions. I was pampered by my parents and I used to focus only on academic activities making me hyper sensitive on very small things. Even though I never accept PMO is good , but PMO lead me here and this forum has improved my life as a whole when it comes to discipline and mental strength. I have made many posts here that I am going to leave this forum and all. But now I feel mentally stronger.

Thank you @alphadude and @GOVIND-19 , because these guys gave me an insight how to deal with arguments effectively. I am mentally strong now and I am used to rejection and still have a strong spirit.

Thank you @The_integrous_one , @the_resilient_one and @drago . I have learnt Hindi from them.

Thank you @Sholt_Tenkerrot , @prothekter_aden and @BlackMagic123 who kept me motivated when I am down.

Thank you @TheBigSP , I learnt how to track discipline effectively.

I can only tag 10 people max. There are many people. If I had not fallen into this trap , maybe I will be good in academics but I would be hypersensitive and undisciplined guy in general.

Nowadays even though I relapse frequently, I don’t have any regrets. I don’t watch P these days. And I am improving in every aspect except academics . My benefits I got from 1000 day no P streak is that I have no regrets which make us confident.

In short, we make mistakes but if we can learn from it. We will become stronger than ever before.

I know it’s long :sweat_smile:. I just took this opportunity to share my veiw about it.

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I should thank you too @risinglion123 because if the Zodiac challenge wasn’t there for me, I wouldn’t be that much active in the this forum. Thank you, Buddy😊. I don’t have much to say but just grateful that I found this forum and the people here are so supportive. Thanks to all guys.

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@anon87955785 ur welcome buddy, all the best and keep going :+1:t2:

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thanku.
share more with other fellas

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This post needs to be in the spotlight again.

@The_Ambitious_One @Strong_one @Amitroghates @DARSHAN2017 @SwatiV @suman26 @nofap0069 @Nerbo @vincitquisevincit . And all my bros and sis check this thread!!!

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@yashnofap01 @LL667788 @jaivanthd @TheSeeker @zeus99 @Rohitash @anon69203515 @redFalcon @textmr03 @Suicider .

Check this thread out. I will also try to finish it asap!

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I had read it already in June last year. It’s been 1 year. :joy:

I am applying some of these in my life and most of the tips are useful.

@Sholt_Tenkerrot

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Will read it tomorrow, as I’m occupied rn. :3

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The purpose of noFap in details

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Very useful, but I already knew these things.
By the way Thanks for had tag me :fire:

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Brilliant posts.
I was being asked “what day are you on” for several times. And my answer “I don’t count days” was not understandable for people who ask.
The moral of this post as I understand is that everything takes time and effort and it recommends to accept that and make life flow to our necessities, happiness and for our well being instead of hiding under p*rn’s sheets.
I liked the part where it mentions managing emotions. It’s a recently discovered topic for me.
Most people (95% if my dad is right) give too much priority and importance to emotions. It’s better to accept that emotions are not that important as we think. It can and better be managed. It’s a big part of entering maturehood.
Step one is actually much more difficult for me than emotions.
I struggle to find what I want in life. That’s why my brain thinks it wants nothing.
I’d appreciate some more tips for conquering step one.

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Thank You for bringing my attention to this. I believe I have figured out the things and if I am not a jackasss I will not return to my user self. I had a few slips but have now understood the phenomenon. Also, I am focusing on building myself and some of my friends here have already become like my family and we are progressing together like beasts (you can check out the Titled Friday Challenge).

Anyway, thank you for mentioning me. Thanks a lot. :+1:

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Thank you very much for tagging me…
To be honest I was thinking the same stuff a few days back…it was a nice reminder…:v::raised_hands::+1:t2::fire::fire:

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Not only nofap it’s beyond that bro.

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@Abhishek_V check this out bro!

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Is he :face_holding_back_tears: … I tried to tag him using his both names eventually i found out that he has deleted his account :pleading_face:.

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Read it. It’s quite apt and extremely elaborate. Thankyou so much from bringing it to my notice. :slight_smile:

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Hello everyone.

My relapse today have put my mindset into acceptance. I am accepting that since the results are the same no matter what changes, PMO is a trap I cannot escape from. I will give up on dreams ans goals. I will give up on getting a girlfriend, and I will give up on caring about everything. I’m almost there. Almost to the point of no return. I am just informing you all because there is nothing now that can save me. Even God doesn’t give me an escape.

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Just like you accepted that fighting against is worthless
Accept the fact that ■■■■ is worthless and give up on it

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