Character of majority masturbators and porn viewers

The most common and widespread character for all of us is that we have trained our mind from childhood to be LAZY.

AS A RESULT, WE ARE NOT TRYING ANYTHING NEW AND CREATIVE THINGS. THIS LEADS US TO MASTURBATE.

SO FRIENDS WE SHALL ALL GET RID OF THIS HELL BY BEING ACTIVE , ENGAGED AND CREATIVE.

" I AM READY TO MOVE A MOUNTAIN TO GET RID OF THIS MASTURBATION ADDICTION AS THIS ADDICTION IS MORE PAINFUL THAN MOVING A MOUNTAIN"

#BEACTIVETOSTOPFAPPING

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Friends, do you all accept that you are born lazy? Just analyze yourself and say

@Fearless.soul No one is born lazy. If we were born lazy, we would never learn to walk/run. We would be content to lie on the ground and be fed.

But we weren’t. We tried to walk. We feel down. We got up.

Don’t degrade character. No-one is born lazy. You can get lazy, sure. But you’re not born lazy.

Another things- you titled your post as ‘us(masturbators and porn viewers)’.

While I do understand your point, I am afraid you are wrong there. This is a community of NoFappers and dopamine detoxers and achievers and goal setters. Of those who have given up porn and fapping. Kindly consider changing the topic name.

No offense bro. Glad you are sharing your thoughts. Keep going bro :facepunch:
Peace and flame on,
Ash

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While character certainly is influenced by genetics as research shows, I think this part of us is far weaker than personality traits acquired throughout childhood or life, throughe experiences and habits.
It is certainly hard, or even impossible, to distinguish what is innate in one’s personality and what is acquired through experience. Thus, you could say that all of us were born lazy, and no one could reasonably proove you wrong.
However, if we were all born with a tendency towards lazyness, it would not have as big an impact as other traits we pick up during our lives. Hence, the question is not whether we all are born lazy, rather than whether we all have picked up a propension towards lazyness at a certain point in our lives.
I agree with you that lazyness can certainly be a risk factor to develop addictions, like our PMO problem.
As a result, I do not think we should pay attention to whether we are born lazy, at the very least we should not pay as much attention to it compared to the question of what experiences have reinforced or developed this trait in us. Then we can understand better the roots of our addiction and work towards recovery.
Have a nice day!:grin:

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Sorry for the topic my friend if it demotivates you. But I myself felt that fappers are lazy people( because I myself trying to get rid of this addiction). So I shared this. I am myself too lazy my friend. But I will become active and attentive.
Thank you for your reply.

Let’s break this addiction together

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Yea friend. Good one. Will identify and break that laziness causing addiction together.

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You are correct. I 100% agree with you that fappers and lazy people and that when we are lazy, we tend to relapse. The idle mind is the devil’s workshop.

It was not to that I disagreed, it was

  1. You stated that we were born lazy, but I think you get it now.
  2. As NoFappers, we should change our mentality. No longer think you are a fapper/porn user- you aren’t. None of us here are, we are actually the minority against all of that. Change your thinking and you change your world.

You have now changed both. I wasn’t trying to argue, just trying to help. It looks like you’ve got it now :+1: we’re here to learn from each other.

Best to your noFap journey :facepunch:

Flame on

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Yea friend, got it. Lets join together in fighting this battle.

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I was not born lazy, but laziness is what drives my urges

If I am active and engaged with some work, I don’t get those thoughts.

Staying lazy like a couch potato makes me worse

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Yea friend. Same experience here too

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