For almost one year I was trying to quit porn. Longest streak was 24 days. Experience of each relapse was noted. After one relapse I strongly decided to go hardmode, since nofap ruined my life in many ways.
Initial days I was on full will power mode. Nearly after 15 days no fap become second nature. Felt super confidence and life started becoming colour full. 20~40 was flat Nothing significant. After 40 urges started to arise, mind started playing tricks to relapse.
I was trying to quit PMO for an year, while I’ve learned these tips. This helped me to reach 50 day streak. @foxer 6t5vyc
I made an urge chart like this
-When
-Where
-Position
-Who all were there
-Actions done
-What to do next time to avoid relapse
Note this, analyse past relapses. Make contingency plans.
Abstain from fb, Insta etc, use YouTube for education only.
Avoid curiosity regarding sex on internet.
Use Google Calendar and tasks to plan each day. Always have something to do.
Decide to quit PMo forever, else your mind will trick you saying “No problem I’ll just fap today and start again”.
Make a mental model that “I’m not the person who watches porn or faps”
Chart all movies to watch for next year on Excel sheet. Add your streak to it. Consider movie as a reward of streak. It helps to eliminate triggering movies. I lost my previous long streak through a movie.
For initial days,
make motivation quote on this app appear every 1 hr. So you’ll be aware of nofap pursuit every time.
Add streak widget
Promise
I’ll never touch penis for massaging/comfort
I’ll never type porn site URL
Save best quotes on this app, read it sometime
Many people list benefits of nofap. Save them read when triggered. It will help to overcome the urges.
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Name: minuiPeriannath
Days: 0
Longest streak: 20 days
Age: 29
Country: USA
Relationship status: single
I’ve been fighting addiction to porn since I was fourteen. I’m so ready to have this behind me. Looking for a clean brain and a pure heart so I can be a better gift to God, my dear ones that I love, and the whole inhabited earth.
Reboot is very hard for me. I can’t get pass one month. My body starts paining and tensed during reboot and i feel very low mood and energy. Please help me.
Reboot = FACING HARDSHIPS of LIFE, from which you were always running in the form of fapping. ARE YOU READY TO FACE THEM ?
IF YES,
THEN you will get all nofap benefits the community is taking about.
Keep patience & dont doubt the path, Get on other side of Reboot where heaven begins
*Until then suffer the pain that you have built for yourself from many years of fapping in silence