Analysing self love and self development ..I talked to a girl and story begins

I talked to a girl few days back, I liked to talk more, to know about her, to know about her likes and dislikes, I was ready to give all my time to her, so she might become my better half.There is a hope,probability that she might be the one.
But…

Did I ever think the same thing about myself, that I should give myself a break from all these thinking.

I should spent time with myself.When was the last time I thought about myself,my health,my self development, my career aspiration, my parents.

Why I am not working on achieving something for myself.

Why myself is losing his grip .

Why I am not respecting other girls choice,
why I ll chase her, not myself.

Do I really love that I have a life and food cloth and a house I have to live,then why I am expecting more

When was the last time, I helped other people,looked at a girl respected view, view as a person

Still it’s ok… I can start focusing on my life,
taking break from all these thing and respecting girls for their individuality

I walk a lonely road
The only one that I have ever known
Don’t know where it goes
But it’s only me, and I walk alone

I walk this empty street
On the boulevard of broken dreams
Where the city sleeps
And I’m the only one, and I walk alone

My shadow’s the only one that walks beside me
My shallow heart’s the only thing that’s beating
Sometimes I wish someone out there will find me
Till then I walk alone

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Be happy with yourself and your life before you begin making an effort to find your love. Otherwise, you will connect all your happiness with someone, which nobody said will be permanent.

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Realistically, yes… still will I achieve what I want to achieve… will I get my ideal life back?

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Great poem… can relate to you…

In this cave… I feel a call…
A call… for salvation…
But… the cave feels long… dark… gloomy…
No one’s there even though they see me…

They refused to lend me their light…
They are simply too busy and selfish…
But why me?
Why am I so lonely here… as if I had done too many wrongs…
Why is reality so inhumane?

I ask… and the voice just says
“Calm down…”
“What the heck?” I said… “I need clarity!!!”

But I can only fall down… paralyzed… in silence…

Help me…

hElP

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But then I noticed a good camp for refuge.
And the voice permitted me to go there.
Finally… I feel peace and safety again…

Thank you… thank you…

Together we rise and get out of this gloomy cave… :angry:

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