According to u what is love ? Is it what u watch in porn and mastrubate for ? Or is love some form of pure bonding of two souls?

THIS TOPIC IS BEEN CHOSEN SO THAT PEOPLE CAN DIFFEEENTIATE BETWEEN LOVE AND LUST
AND SO THAT PEOPLE LEARN TO LOVE TRUELY AND TRY TO ERADICATE LUST.
And so that after realizing that porn is fake people can try to overcome it
So do share what is ur opinion about love.
Thank you

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Love is something pure and eternal no words can describe it, also there are different forms of love.

Love between a couple
Love for parents
Love for children
Love for friends
Love for family

Lust is totally different, it’s something which happens because of beauty and physical appearance.

Lust will fade out once beauty and appearance are gone. But love will last long even if everything is gone.

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Hell every 1
So according to me what is love
I never imagined love can be so powerful
I swear about it
What I’m gonna say is 1000% true( this percentage doesnt make proper sense mathematically just expressing my feelings)
I never knew what is love 2017 my 1st pu where I found the right person ( literally mean right person )
Until then I used to think love is just having sex , lip lock and all
But it’s not
I got committed on 15th nov 2017
And guess what we never hugged till next 6 months not even casual hugs but still we loved each other ( is this possible )
So kissing was long long far
I remember us hugging in jan 2018 somewhere and while hugging each other we were trying to hug by hiding from crowd in clg where people are so open and after that I held her hand for the first time in July in 2and pu for the first time and the confidence u get when u have some 1 special is so special
We never did anything seductive but still love existed
For us just spending time eating icecream enjoying the nature and talking was everything
And one day 3 people just popped in front of me and threatened me to harm her if I didnt go with them so they took me and hit me and took my money and when some how with the help of my friends we I managed to get back to her
I saw her in cries and it took me next 2 hours to console her that’s when I realised I need to quit porn for myself and more for her
And frankly their is no lust between us as we have decided not to do anything until marriage
(Its different whether u r meant to stay together or apart)
But stay pure
As love is about happiness with ur partner and lust is for bodily pleasure which will fade one day but love will stay for long time
And pornography content just increase ur lust
So guys dont fall for lust and if u have fallen each of will try to help u and bring u up just have faith in the almighty

Now ours is a long distance and but the spark still exist and love increase more when I do no fap
Love is something different for me
It’s not sex at all its spending time caring for each other and all
It’s just that the porn industry is playing with our minds and changing the meaning of love for every 1
It’s not always about pleasure sometimes it s regarding happiness and just for that one smile on ur loved one s face
Just tell them what u r going through and tell them u will try quitting this habit for their sake
If they truely love u
U can’t imagine their happiness
So this my definition of love

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Love is selfless. It is about being closer with the other person. Love inspires happiness, and motivates you to be better. Love can always grow stronger, but you can be happy and satisfied with love, as it is something that fills you.

Lust is selfish. It is all about you. Lust causes sadness and eventually despair. Lust is lazy and doesn’t care about being better. Lust can always grow stronger, but you can never be satisfied with lust, as it is something that drains you.

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  1. Love is having that one person you can tell anything to.

  2. You can always go back to that person when you are in any trouble.

  3. Love is taking care of each other, in happy and in sad times.

  4. Love is sharing responsibilities of life with each other.

  5. Love is not about external beauty but about inner beauty.

  6. Love is a connection that makes you feel comfortable and calm during the most challenging times in your life.

  7. Love is a genuine feeling in the heart while lust is a just a lie that you live. Love always wins and lust always fades.

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If we starts speaking about love it can go all day :grin:

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well, if you’re asking what love is then you havent experienced it yet. trust me, it has very little to do with sex or lust for that matter. its a feeling on a totally different level but i feel love and friendship are more similiar than love vs lust. and you can only experience that strong connection with another person or even animals, doesnt really have to be a person.

and how do we tell them apart? easy, lust is only physical. ask ur self whats the top 5 things that you like about her/him. if the things that comes to ur mind is thats persons sexual appeal then its most likely only lust. lets say you are sexually involved with that person, you really feel nothing for him/her when you get past the temptation. kind of like when a kid gets excited when he gets a new toy to play with but slowly he gets bored of it and tossess into a corner. this is what lust is like

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