A Problem with ejaculating with a partner

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    Greetings! I’m a 16-year-old and I need advice/help. I had sex with an ex-partner around a year ago a few times, however, I couldn’t ejaculate at all no matter how long we’ve been doing it for or what we’ve been doing. Recently, my current partner has given me a handjob and I couldn’t ejaculate either, but this time at least I saw pre-cum. I don’t know if I have some sort of a problem, or if in the second case it wasn’t long enough (around 15 minutes, more or less), so I would love if someone had advice or a solution to my problem. Also, I masturbate 4-5 times a week and I was thinking that maybe that’s the problem, but any help is appreciated. Thank you in advance, best regards.
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Have you been watching porn for a long time? If yes, then perhaps you’ve become accustomed to the testosterone levels that your body generates which needs to be higher than before every time. So, if you have been watching porn, take a break, detox your mind.
If no, then perhaps you should consult a gynaecologist regarding any clots that might hinder with production of semen.


I’ve been watching porn for like 3-4 years, but I don’t always masturbate to porn. I’m going to stop watching it anyway, since I started no-fap. Thank you for advice!

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