38 years using porn, betrayed my wife, making the changes to be a better man

Hello all.
New here.
I’ve been using porn for 38 years. My wife of 16 years discovered it while it while i was trying again to stop using.
I’m working with another reboot program, and have been clean for three weeks.
I’m looking for more resources and a true support group, and I’m really encouraged by what i see here.
I’ll be checking in daily and using this a lot.
Thanks, everyone

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Good on you for trying to better yourself man.

I wish you good luck on this journey :four_leaf_clover::crossed_fingers:

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I’ll tell you what work for me.
I’m 118 days.

Block all devices: cellphone (Applock SpSoft, Safe Kids Kaspersky), Router (OpenDNS or Clean browsing) and PC (Blok Supreme Pro - email them, it will have an english translation soon).

This solved the porn access problem to me.

And the spirituality solved the masturbation (my great difficulty) and urges problem to me. It’s necessary to pray every morning asking God for chastity. Finally, since I went to Eucharist frequently, at least 3 times per week, and Penitence Sacrament too, i don’t relapsed anymore.

It’s what works to me.

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Brother you seem to be desired. You could also create a group in DM but that will die soon so
find out any person in which you can trust like i did, he should inspire you. And you should tell him day to day activities. Simultaneously you can do forum challenges and so on

Thanks everyone.
I appreciate the support and kind words…
I know I have a hell of an uphill battle, but I’m committed to this like nothing else.

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