I believe you have a dog that you go on walks with. Not sure about its gender though.
But if you are using that to refer to an entire human gender, remember that this label will apply to all those people too, who have loved you and supported you unconditionally, people like your mother, your sister and others. When you talk like that, you degrade yourself to the levels of those idiotic people who call men “dogs”.
I can understand that you are upset with your life, that you have been wronged by some people, that you are finding it hard, and yes you are suffering… but who isn’t?
Weakness is more internal than external, if you feel you are weak then you’ll stay weak even if you are actually a literal mountain. You can always move it and get fitter. You need to focus on yourself without expecting external validation. Focus on your internal world first bro, become mentally resilient. Workout. Study well. I have been where you are and I definitely don’t want you to end up where I am right now.
I slept early today and had a very realistically unreal dream. I just woke up.
First dream of my last girlfriend…it made me cry even in dream and i wanted her back so bad in the dream and right now the feeling is intense.
Secondly, I have been fighting weird ghosts in my dreams, my hands were actually moving in dream and bed. How I know it? It woke me up
And I felt so weak fighting them, like I could not lift a punch. Both dreams were merged together in a way it was scary, heart wrenching
I just woke up and it feels so weird.
Don’t reflect such thoughts in your life. It’s not good. Don’t say such thoughts, don’t believe it.
Please. I ain’t weak brother, I really am not and so is not you.
Working out yeah, sure. Will make sure to be the best version of myself and so should you.
I am sorry guys. I was not even able to control a single bit and I feel too ashamed about it.
I am really sorry.
It was a 1 minute relapse it happened when I peeked just for a minute. Idk want to go in detail of it. I was using instagram, I got a reel mentioning something. Searched it online. Physically and on attraction basis i didn’t claim a bit of it. The ejaculation was involuntary, happened on its own.
Idk, I need time to understand why I even searched it. I knew exactly what could happen. Is my dedication really that weak.
All of these sounds like excuses to avoid the accountability. You aren’t able to control your desires for 1 week. How will you do those tasks that require much more dedication?
I know you can achieve anything if you apply yourself to any of these goals. I would anyway suggest brother to prioritise one at a time. I know you have that capability to crack everything but take it one at a time. Keep everything in your schedule but prioritize everything. If that is money first, let that be. If that is health, focus on that. Everything requires time and focus.
At least I cannot focus on all these things at one go. Lately I was talking to a senior of mine who has done a remarkable research recently. He literally took an off from everything. Nobody knew where he was. Nobody could contact him. Nobody knew what was he doing. He was not on social media. He was nowhere. But now as he has finished his main research, he is now connecting back with people.
But earlier he was not like this. He was damn social. Very very socially active. I never imagined he would disappear like this. But this is how great things are accomplished. He had multiple hospital visits during his research due to heart aches and all. But now he is working on his health and social connections again.
NoFap is not worthy of this much attention. When you begin to get some return out of your labour and hard work and when your life becomes worthy in your own eyes, you will automatically begin loving yourself. NoFap is an expression of self-love. The lesser you love yourself, the harder it is to maintain a NoFap attitude. Focus on working and being the best in what you do and this lifestyle will automatically make you better in everything including NoFap.
Also limiting screentime will help a lot in this disregard. I mean in NoFap and all. Stay away from screen and you have solved half the problems.
Don’t worry buddy. This phase is not longish. Soon this will pass and a new dawn would welcome you. Always there if you need me.
Don’t stress too much
I felt just like how you are feeling 3 months back and you would have seen my posts here back then
Well after Slogging day and night for classes and studying and writing an exam, I am happy that I still feel worthy enough even after 3 consecutive relapses this month
Relapse and ■■■■ makes us feel unworthy in life
This feeling of being not worthy enough is painful and depressing
However you need to understand that this feeling is temporary
Life is a race
No one continuously wins in life or runs in life
Often people derail and that’s okay
Start from where you are
You can still reach your destiny ahead of many people
Life gives n number of opportunities to its people to improvise, learn, accept mistakes and succeed
Each opportunity needs to be understood as a lifeline by its participants
So start from where you are
You still can do a lot of things in life which many can’t
"Start from Where You Are
Use What You Have
Do What You Can "
Whether you wish to take a break from this forum or otherwise, its totally your personal decision.
Anyways all the best in your life
Hope you will achieve all your dreams and become successful
You ain’t a fake, bro. You’re sharper than me, sharper than anyone else I know. Hell would freeze over before I buy that lie. If someone misjudged you, burn it like dry grass.
Down the years, you’ve dominated academia. Let it out if you must but don’t vent out weakness that isn’t even real. Still it’s good perhaps. Strong people hold themselves to such brutal standards that even the slightest weakness feels massive. It’s the mark of an elite who refuses to stagnate.
If people don’t see it, fine. Walk alone if you have to but don’t let anyone confine you to a version you don’t accept. I believe in you but fck people’s belief in yourself. You need no one’s validation. You just need yours. Now seize everything by force. There are no handouts in this world.
Do whatever you want. But you and I both know you are making excuses.
No one is forcing you to be here. You said p0rn is a problem. You are on a NoFap forum to quit your addiction. Yet you are not doing NoFap. You talk big but when it’s time to walk the talk, you don’t. You can leave the forum but the forum is not the problem.
I went away from the forum and found out my answer. This forum indeed is the problem.
It isolates you from the rest of the world. It’s addictive like ■■■■.
It causes you loneliness, yes this app. You stay away from other social channels, you stay away from groups you once were friends with all with the tag of self improvement. This causes loneliness, and this loneliness causes relapse.
I Relapsed again today to this drug but I really went good all these days without this app and I will go good again. I don’t know if you will be here after an year+ or not, I will show up with a very good streak, more than an year+ streak.
and become successful