I came to know about it after joining the forum, didnāt know the meaning
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Sandeep Maheshwari for every nofapper :-
Meanwhile me :- mar gaya mad*****
That was my first reaction, when I watched his video. I was confused. I never disagreed with him but yeah I donāt believe whatever is being said by someone whom I listen to. I agree when they are right, I disagree when they are wrong.
The problem here is he is not a teenager. He doesnāt know itās an addiction. And addiction is something if you do it once, It is for sure 1000% that it will become your habit. Whatever he said itās from his point of view not a teenager who can ruin his life due to this PMO.
I am not trying to defame him or anything. He is a good guy, He has helped me a lot through his videos. But in this aspect saying PMO is normal and promoting it, He is an assholeā¦! Jise bura lagna ho lageā¦!
I found this comment under one of reply of some commentā¦
(I took this ss back then when His video was on trending, I thought nobody here watches sandeep maheshwariās videos, thatās why nobody discussed about that video)
Sandeep Maheshwari is an idiot, I usually donāt watch motivational videos but I would say Dr Vivek Bindra has awesome motivational and helping videosā¦
Day 20 Update:
Today was my SST exam and I copied some in it
Anyway Nofap update:
Nothing seems off, I seem to be normalā¦
Thatās it I guessā¦
I found this comment under one of reply of some commentā¦
(I took this ss back then when His video was on trending, I thought nobody here watches sandeep maheshwariās videos, thatās why nobody discussed about that video)
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This guy will enjoy when the addition takes over himā¦
Till then let him enjoy.
It is common nowadays every dumb to smartest students are copying.
Teachers also support them
Nah .
(20 character)
Fuckā¦ I relapsed, i will probably relapse more till today midnight, so donāt mind my streakā¦
Day 20 update 2: RELAPSE
Guys, I may have said something absolutely bizarre like:
Today, I felt the absolute disgust for what I did. I now understand what this community and my pals here mean to me. Just for my pleasure I brought down my whole team by 11 more points in a group battle. I feel like a selfish idiot now. But I will try my best to not get into chaser and escape it.
@The_integrous_one sry bro just yesterday we discussed on relapse and here I am, changing my wordsā¦ I apologize.
I also promise that I wonāt get stuck into chaser
I have also found my new goal, to break my previous streak of 20 days!!!
I laughed my ā ā ā out after seeing that comment I think the person wrote it sarcastically to taunt sandeep maheshwari.
No worries man, I know how hard it is, just keep giving your best time and again and you will make it.
I know the feeling
My last relapse was the last. Now, its high time I took control again and started my new best streak!!!
Thank you everyone who helped me deal with my relapse!!
Let the escape from Chaser Begin!
This sounds like the test Tanjiro had to go through in Demon Slayer episode 4 or 5
MY sole goal now is surviving!!!
here, demons are high urges and Iām poor zenitsu (not gonna say tanjiro cause heās not scared of anything)
Ok so hereās my take on chaser (refined over time)
So chaser effect by definition means: You will get very high urges for PMO after a sexual encounter (in our case PMO session).
But I think (rather I know) that most people think that chaser means that you relapsed once so you will be relapsing again and again. Many go on to do the same because they can just blame chaser effect and not take responsibility.
But for people like us (and I am referring to almost everyone who is on this forum) who are accustomed to handling urges and have all the right strategies need not take chaser effect as an excuse.
Earlier I was just ignoring that chaser effect was a thing but I know now that it actually is something and itās just that urges will be high on your first day on no fap, which is nothing unusual for us if you think about it. You have the right strategies just deploy them and become alert as soon as you relapse, else if you end up giving up to it all the benefits you gained will be gone in just one day of binge relapsing.
Thatās exactly what I think bro But I donāt say it since itās an addiction and it also depends on level of the addicted person.
Yeah that plays a role too I think,
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
I gotta factor that into my opinion of chaser
But what I said applies to most people, especially many of us who here who have all the right strategies